What women think?

After years of observation, coupled with good and bad, novel and weird experiences, I thought I must pen down, especially for the men out there who like to be around a good woman but ends up with a victimizer. There are countless questions pertaining to women that have always puzzled men and some questions are answered here.

Are women really beautiful?
Undoubtedly, women are beautiful, from a man's eye. However, taste sometimes differ in men but psychologically, men are instinctively attracted to the opposite sex. But some men would casually appreciate another man's handsomeness; a woman would go beyond an appreciation for another woman's beauty.

Women talk about everything, I mean everything. You will observe that when a man talks about his sex life, his friends would turn it into a mischievous adventure, but when a woman talks about her sex life, her friends discuss the issue like they are in a boardroom.

It is very disturbing and perplexing for men to find a geek hanging around with a beautiful woman. The man will question, "What the heck she sees in him?" The answer is that some women give more importance to the way a man is treating her than what he looks like, of course there are few, sorry more exceptions. This sort of proves that as long as men treat women the way she wants to be treated, she will fall for that man even if he isn't good looking. Of course, she always has an escape route if she ever wants to explore sex with a handsome man and most women do use this quite often without letting anybody know.

Women's beauty is a man's weakness and women are extremely happy with it. In order to incite sexual feelings in a man, she only has to wear revealing clothes and the work is done. But a man's work is much tougher. If he wants to impress a woman, he has to use enormous numbers of witty one-liners. Let's accept that it is a hard job.

A man will have to ignore what he feels about the woman and say what the woman wants to hear.

Why women are stronger than men?
Men are instinctively attracted toward women without even exploration the source. And a woman knows exactly how and why men are attracted to them.

Women will naturally be excellent sexologists because of their in-depth knowledge about men's sexual psyche. And men blindly allow his sexual feelings to take over his disposition and women just love that. Sometimes men do fear of analyzing their sexual psyche because they feel they might lose their sexual interest from women, which is absolutely untrue.

Men will begin to do things that would fuel their hope of satisfy their sexual desires from the woman they admire. And that is where a woman comes into action in manipulating the whole situation. She will use each and every tool in her closet to starve the man from sexual satisfaction and will also not allow his admiration for her to die out. He will be hanging in the mid-air in the hope of getting the woman and also won't decide to give up on her. This is how men voluntarily shed their mental strength and consider women as stronger than them.

The mere fact that men take all crisis in their stride and women freely complain over petty issues proves that men are stronger than women. But men believe that if they are helpless in front of a woman sexually, he thinks that women are stronger than him.

Are women more intelligent than men?
The physical strength that women lack is made up with an extra ability to communicate. Men are born thinkers. They think more than they speak.

Women have an impressive ability to argue and turn the tables around in her favour even when she knows she is wrong. Men, even though they are physically stronger and more courageous, they are, in their heart, gullible. They like to be soft and gentle with women. Women like to control men with force.

They believe that if a woman is beautiful, then she has to be a good natured and intelligent, and when they realize that it isn't true, they prefer to stick to their belief.

Many a times, employers hire women who are beautiful and good talkers, but even after realizing that his judgment about her ability and intelligence was wrong, the employer continues to make erroneous decision in the future. Could it be true that words speaks louder than action? Never know in women's case.

Yes, not all women are stupid, but not all men can use their high intelligence when they are with a woman. Men are more intelligent than women, but it's the woman who uses more of her little intelligence.

How to win an argument with a woman?
The only way to win an argument with a woman is never to argue with her. Discuss. Women hate discussing sentimental issues with men. They like to manipulate the emotional side of a man to get what she wants. They fear that if men begin to think, they will not get the desired behaviour from the man.

Men have to learn the skills of lying and manipulating. Women are naturals.

As the saying goes, "When you open the door of the heart of a woman, you will find yet another door inside." They never say what they mean and say what they don't exactly mean.

Woman's position is dominant in a relationship as long as she remains enigmatic to the man. They strive to know what the man is thinking to revise her stand in his life, and will conceal her own feelings to keep the man guessing. She likes men to be ever creative and find new ways to please her.

And if she detects that the man is getting laid back in the relationship, to bring him back on his toes, she will enact a situation that will make the man guilty of not taking care of the woman as she expects. Men need change but women hate change. To keep everything the same the woman will want men to change.

Men feel guilty very soon and that is a powerful weapon in the hands of women, but men don't know that. Even if she isn't hurt, she will show the man that he has hurt her feelings and he should feel guilty if he really loves her. This way the man never realizes that he is actually a better lover then his woman.


How can you manipulate a woman?
This is a million-dollar question, isn't it? To know what women thinks could unravel the mystery of the universe, to say the least. Women could be natural manipulator, but men can learn the skills of manipulation if they observe the woman meticulously.

A man could possibly live without a woman, but a woman definitely cannot live without a man. Even though women are more desperate to be with a man, but it's the man who expresses his impatience to be with a woman.

Women are more physical than men. They are more particular about the way she dress, looks and walks. Men are like the adventurous wanderers; they like to be what they really are. It is understandable that when women are working so very hard to look good, she wants men also to put efforts to praise her hard work.

Women feel more insecure than men, but it is the man who expresses his possessiveness. Man knows that other men could easily take his woman for a rid and so he dislikes his woman to talk to other men. Women know that all men are attracted to beautiful women, and so she dislikes when she sees another woman getting friendly with her man and demands her man to start mistreating the other woman.

The most common mistake a man makes is to 'try' to satisfy the woman. First, it is highly unlikely that a woman knows what she really wants and what will make her happy. A man will spend all his life to do exactly what a woman wants and still the woman will complain that she isn't happy. The problem here is women don't know what will make her satisfied and eternally happy. 'Happiness lies within' is something women can't understand.

The only way to manipulate a woman is to be a woman yourself. Think like a woman. Of course, don't behave and dress like a woman. If men too start complaining on petty issues like women do, if men too start making women guilty, if men too talk to women just like other women talk to her, if men too show that he is hurt by her action/words, then that man can manipulate the woman.

However, there is no one rule because there are 'n' numbers of varieties of women out there who are waiting to show men how enigmatic they are. Women can easily drive men crazy by complaining about his behaviour toward her and still she never let's him know what exactly she wants. As long as she makes the man guilty of not satisfying his woman, she will have an upper hand.

Women like men to share his feelings. But men feel uncomfortable to do so because of the obvious reason, which women prefer not to understand. That is why women dislike unpredictable men and force men to believe that his woman is unpredictable and so he must be very careful. Men must say what he doesn't mean and mean what he doesn't say.

Men are basically more honest to their woman and feel uneasy if they have to pretend. Women are comfortable pretending anything, anytime. She can show that she is madly in love with a man even when she actually loves somebody else. Men, if they don't like a woman, he will not be able to conceal his lack of interest.

Manipulation is all about controlling the present moment. Doesn't matter who eventually wins in the end, but women aim to win in the present and remain unconcerned about the end. Women deal with a situation one at a time and men tries to solve the problem in one go. Women are very patient if she wants to change a man; men are impatient and take drastic steps if he wants to change a woman, and ends up seeing himself changed by that woman.

Manipulation is handling the situation that is suitable for men at that particular moment and even if what he says and does isn't really him, he must do what the situation demands in order to remain in control of the situation. It is a mind games and what a man feels is not necessarily to be conveyed to the woman. If they are in the dark, let then remain in there. You can never convince women to think from your perspective. A woman can never understand a man but will continue to make assumptions because they know men really don't care to correct them.

I hope men will be benefited from my observation. I also expect women will to be upset with me for unveiling their secrets. This article will go on and on if I have to write everything I know about women. Therefore, I adjourn this workshop on, "What Women Think?"