Relationship between husband and wife

Relationship between husband and wife is mostly influenced on account of undue interference of people.  Many a time the reason could be even very close people like in-laws or other close associates.  It is rarely that the relation gets strained because of personal reasons, such differences certainly crop up, as part of life and are amicably settled with time, couples mostly do not pay much attention to such issues, as they realize that the cause is momentary and forgettable, unless one is adamant on one's point and its approval, such trivial issues are overlooked before it explodes and that is what is recommended and correct.  The bitterness is generated at times because somebody attempts to disturb the harmony of the couple.  The subjects intention may be to harm but they invariably damage relationship with their unwanted interventions, the person does not really appreciate that he has no place among the two mature adults unless sought for, whatever could be the relationship yet the person is always a third person between a couple.

 

Actually ideal way is always to refrain from interfering in anybodies personal life, this is nothing but a cause of unnecessary conflict between the couple as this may be truly disturbing to the couple, the couple remains perplexed and is oblivious of situations. The person intervening is indeed a distorting element, what it? He or She is in intimate relationship or in authoritative relationship.  Such person is odd man out and is a cause of conflicts that can ruin relationship between the two, the unwanted adviser may also get rejected for ever.  Emotional persons always have problems in such situations; such persons are sensitive, possessive to comments, behaviours and must be handled with care.

 

Our purpose of suggesting anything to anybody may be probably good but we must evaluate the status and then only proceed.  Is it advisable and proper to offer assistance, or showing of concerns, especially if the same is unsolicited? How does this advice benefit the person unless mentally one is prepared to adhere, absorb the so called suggestions? They say even charity as well appears and proves good when the same is provided to the right prospect, so, why offer, and disturb the mutual relations of a couple at the expense of disturbing their self esteem.